In Relationships

The 7 Main Reasons Why Trendy Girls Get Married To The Good Guys.

It's no news that trendy girls are the ones that end up meeting a nice man, By the word TRENDY, I mean girls that are updated, flirt, wear lastest clothes and more. They are sometimes regarded as bad because of their lifestyle, people think they'll never see a good man but more often than not, this girls even get married to the good guys despite their lifestyle.

We interviewed some guys and they gave us there own reasons why they prefer the trendy girls that's why we are bringing this topic to you and you can also learn from this...

Here are some reasons why the so called bad girls get married to the good guys.

Read: Signs That Shows He Is Cheating On You!


From the interviews we found out that the trendy girls are smart, I was talking to a girl who is also among the trendy category, she told me:

"Am not as bad as people think but I don't want people to think am acting like a church girl" 

They are smart in the sense that they pretend to be what they're not so as to keep reputation from friends...

This days most guys are like  "I hate that girl, she behaves like she's the only one that knows how to go to church".

So this girls don't want to be classified that way so they pretend they're a bad... That's smartness cause they will be loved by fellow peers.


Like seriously am talking from experience; most cute girls I find attractive are always trendy girls, i know we have some good girls that are attractive but they're few .

If you think am lying check them out today. The trendy girls are always Clean, well dressed and always on make-up in fact the are seductive.. They're are so attractive that you will be tempted to walk up to them.. Hope I gat a witness!

Read: How To Keep Your Face Pimples Free And Look Stunning!


Reasons why the good guys choose them is because they believe she's gonna change after marriage like I said they're smart and most guys know that they're just pretending.

The believe when they're together she'll change that lifestyle.

So they prefer them and like seriously this girls do change cause they feel it's no longer necessary to live such life. Even if they don't want to, they still respect the fact that they're married and be coerced to change.


Most of this girls tends to become submissive and loyal after marriage, most of them just wanna taste life to the fullest before marriage and most men now know their tricks so they prefer being in a relationship with such lady rather than one that claims so holy and at end be the guilty one.

Let me be personal a bit, I have wanna share a story which I believe you'll enjoy.
"There was a girl in my area she was so bad like seriously she was among the leader of a cult group, people thought she would never change but after she got married she was totally submissive and was even sharing the gospel" so that's how most ladies are..

Mind you, I am not saying you should marry any cultist you see.


Most of this girls are so friendly and easy going, most men don't like girls that would try to play hard to get with their feeling, and besides Most of the good guys are shy when it comes to asking a lady out just imagine a girl playing hard to get on a shy guy he will just give up.

That's why good guys always marry such a lady. Apart from that, this girls are always smiling they can easily draw your attention, one thing I learnt from this type of girls is that you cannot snub them even if you try they'll call you back because of how social they're. Such girls can make home lively and make you live long; and every man want a lively home and also wanna live long. HAPPINESS IS KEY TO LIFE..


This aspect is kinda funny but it's the truth, most of the good guys are virgins or learner when it comes to sex aspect so they won't like to get married to a learner that's why they prefer the so called bad girls because they can learn alot from them in terms of relationship. And they are so experience because of what life has done to them, so most men believe they can be a good influence to the children and they'll know when their children is going the wrong way. Like The Popular Dictum: Experience Is The Best Teacher.

Read: Type Of Guys You shouldn't Date!


Like i said earlier, most of these men are not good at sex so they need someone that can make them enjoy the sweetness in sex and the right person are the so called bad girls because they have seen it all they can give you the best pleasure you need. and besides, marriage without sex is like phone without sim card and you can only play games with such phone (that's where cheating comes in)...

Read: Do you love girls that wears waist needs? Yes Or NO? Share!


Those are some of the reasons why the good guys prefer the trendy girls. Also when dating any girl, don't overlook the key aspect of starting a relationship because she's trendy doesn't mean she's your match. I hope you enjoyed the article?

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In Dating Ideas Relationships

The 10 Best Online Dating Sites To Hook Up In 2017.

Finding real and reliable partner this day's has become so hard, as hard as when you're looking for admission...
That's the reason why LoveNancials is presenting to you the best site to hook up with your potential partner fast!
This post will be focusing on Nigerian dating sites tho it contains some dating site that aren't owned by a Nigerian but all sites below, will help you find your partner, it will also be helpful to Africans at large and those in quest to get a partner from Nigeria and Africa respectively..
This post is not in any way related to sugar mummy and rest of them because I received a mail telling to write a post on where to get sugar mummy in Nigeria without being scammed.

This is not for sugar mummy but getting true partner that will love and cherish you!! Maybe in the nearest future I might right on were to get sugar mummy and it'll be after thorough research as I'm not a sugar mummy type.

"Before listing out the sites, I will like to enlighten you on how it works and also list out some benefits attached. And you won't fall a victim of scam.

Before joining any of the sites please read their terms and condition and be careful not to be a victim of scam. Don't ever send anyone money to help you get connected Because this sites allows you communicate to the person you're interested in. Nothing like agents and other money stuff..

Make sure you're already dating the person before sending any money (if at all you should send money). And also avoid blind dating because some of these people online are not real humans (won't explain more!).. Make sure you've known yourselves better before starting any relationship..

Please some girls and men are 419 and gold diggers be very careful and act smart..
For those saying what's the benefits of relationship, I will be listing them out but I won't stress on it much to avoid making you bored.


Here are few benefits of relationship!

1. You won't be bored and always have someone to learn on.

2. You will have self esteem as your spouse will always make you see the great person you're!

3. You will be responsible.

4. Life becomes easier, like they say "two heads is better than one".

5. You will be happy, in no doubt relationship makes you happy.

I listed only 5points but you can read my full post on it.(for more inspiration and enlightenment.).

Get Your Partner Today From Sites Listed Below:

The 10 Best Online Dating Sites 2017


Hitwe is the first on my list because it's so popular and has always been connecting the world..
It's not a Nigerian based dating site but millions of Nigerians are there and you can easily find them without stress as hitwe already made arrangement for that, so you can choose preferred location.



I'm personally in love with this site that's why I made it my number two choice and guess what? It's very easy to operate..
From the name you can easily tell its a Nigerian dating site.



Another popular meet up zone for Nigerians..
I made it my number 3 choice because I fancy the name Sexy Naija and it has connected many souls..



Another sweet, elegant, and fun filled dating site.
I made them my  number 4 Choices because they're so active in fact my mail is filled with their hook up alerts and users keep trouping, day in day out!



The name has already explained it all, you can date anyone for free as long as the person is interested..
They're my number 5 because I love the name DateWhoYouWant and they have a friendly user interface.



You heard the name "mingle", you're free to mingle with anybody and find your love..
They're my number 6 because I also I wanna mingle!

You wanna mingle, Aha? Then give them a try!



Another hook-up zone for connecting couples that are reading to start live together..
This site is strictly for adults, teenagers are advised to stay far! Except you're ready for marriage.
They're my number 7 because they're matured and unique!



This is another meet up zone for both adults and young ones..
They have good design that's why they're my number 8. Besides that they are friendly to users and they have active users.



This another cool arena for all kinds of meet up, as the name implies Naija connection!
They're my number 9 choice because they're different in their own way, they are also good at connecting users with their match up.



This is a cool and matured dating site that connects you rapidly.
They are my my 10th choice because they are unique and amazing, I have encountered their goodness..



That's a good list of dating sites and they're the best I know for now and I will keep you updated if I discover any new one!

NOTE: I have not rated any site above the other, they're all special in there own way!

In addition, I am not paid to advertise this websites, in fact I deserve a credit for it. I have tried them and I think they're the best and I'll update you when I have a better or rather good one as this...

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The 10 Big Secrets Of Successful People.

Everyone wants to be at the Top, they want success in every aspect of their life.
Yeah it's good to aim high, so bravo for that!

I want to make your quest to be at the top more easy by divulging the 10 big secrets of successful people.

Success isn't all about being at the top but beating your previous record or score..
Most Successful men have secret to their success, I researched about these secrets and here am I writing this article...

PAUSE: You need to become an entrepreneur today. I remember when my mentor (strive masiyiwa) talked about this and its really helping me to attempt the extraordinary..

Entrepreneurship is great, it changes you and your mindset and also prepare you for success...

Anyway, before I delve deep into the topic at stake, let me share some inspiration quote..

READThe 4 Ultimate Facts To Consider Before Starting Any Business. 

"Don't look down on yourself because of your situation or anyone, remember you're fearfully and wonderfully made"

"Everyone is a star"

"A man of strength can win a trophy but the one with knowledge rules over him.."

"Always concentrate on what you want to achieve.."

"Your thought determines what you get.."

"After you've a battle, sharpen your knife"

"Affirms This: I must reach my goals in life.."

"Gold becomes even more brighter when it passes through fire..."

"A thing not to be with is hope"

"Be financially literate if you desire to be rich"..

If you're aiming to be great, don't ever give up, Persevere!

Below is The 10 Big Secrets Of Successful People, Relax and enjoy!

1. They're Curious.

Successful people are known for their curiosity, they're keen when it comes to learning new stuff, " The day you stop learning, the day you stop growing ".

The popular Mary Slessor that stopped the killing of twin was curious, she learnt their reasons and found out it didn't worth the killing, she frustrated the old tradition that supported killing of twin with her creativity..

Successful people don't do things because people are doing it, the try to know " WHY".

2. They're Pertinacious.

Successful people don't give up, they're determined and persistent.

"By Perseverance the snail reached the ark", successful fail to give up. They just won't give up...

" Success is achieved and maintained by those who keep trying ", successful people tried but failed and guess what?
They Never loose hope!

3. They're Focused.

Successful people know the herculean goal they're chasing and they refuse to get distracted.

They don't allow themselves to be distracted by Flirting, Money, Friends etc. they're focused because they understand that distraction can make them fail.

They try as much as they can not to be distracted, " Distraction is a trick to pull you down ".

4.They Learn From Failure.

Successful people sees failure as a learning spot and a building-bridge to success.

I have heard many successful people say " I wish failure keep coming because it's a sign that success await me".

I usually tell people never to give up because they failed, if your plan fails, you don't stop planning, you plan better and move on..

Failure is a factor that Inspires the the winner, and its also a chance or rather privilege to begin more intelligently.

5. They are game changers.

Successful people love changing the game, the pattern its been played or changing the entire game.

Another word for 'game changer' is creativity, successful people are creative; any field they venture into, they try not to do what others are doing, they do theirs uniquely. If at all they'll do what others are doing, they do it better by utilizing the flaws of others to strengthen theirs. that's the game changing!

Creativity: the power to connect the seemly unconnected.

A man loved reading books, he order for different book and it was delivered to him within sometime. he however felt the time taken for the book arrival was much and he wanted it as quick as, you know what he did?

He refused to be frustrated but rather changed the game. He came up with his own method of buying and delivering books which appears to be more fast than the method he was using then. Not only that, guess what?

His method is one of the most used and fastest when it comes to purchasing book. This man is Jeff Bull from Amazon (founder).

" I never made money from complaining but from dealing with frustration throw at me". Strive Masiyiwa.

Instead of complaining or copying others, they prefer to change the game..

Take a look at Snapchat; Facebook; Twitter; Instagram, they're all social platforms for communication but are different from each other. Its called Game Changing.

If Snapchat Copied Facebook clone, they wouldn't have got were they are!

Are a Game Changer?

6. They're ready for change.

Successful people are always ready to change to any direction.

You'll agree with me that the pattern used to do jobs in the late 80s isn't the same pattern we are using now, for a worker as of 80s to be able to do the current job we have now needs to change the pattern he used in the 80s, else he won't be able to do the work we do currently.

I believe you've got that, that's exactly what successful people do, they're flexible to change..

Things change everyday, you can't use yesterday pattern for today. This is what people fail to understand.

Strive masiyiwa title an article of his: "Be prepared to change your career", he emphasised on change..

So today, permit me to tell you; Be prepared to change your career.

Changing your career doesn't mean changing or quitting your current job, No! But changing the way you do the job.. Else the whirlwind of change will blow you away like chaff because you refused to comply by embracing change.

" Successful people realize the magical powers of change and its outcome".

Lastly, no matter how good you're in what you're doing, you can still do it better. So learn to change to any direction required..

7. They're quick listeners.

Successful people don't talk too much or better still, they don't talk anyhow.

They're good at listening because of their curious nature but will be very careful of the kind of things they relay to you.

Dreams can be killed when it enters the wrong ears, and guess what?

Dream killers are everywhere, some come as friends while others as enemies. So learn to control your speech or words else failure awaits you!

8. They're dream chasers.

Successful people chase dream not money and later on make money from their dream.

"Ideas not money liberate a nation" Philip Emeagwali.

Your dreams are ideas that if properly utilized and maximized will transform you for good.

Making money isn't a dream but money can be a tool for achieving your dream and your dream also yields money!

It's very tragic for you to live in this wide world without a dream,

The future belongs to those that believe in the beauty of their dreams.

Strive Masiyiwa (Econet founder) once talked about how he rejected an offer that could generate real cash for him and follow his dream despite at that moment he wasn't financially stable and now his dream is fetching him desired money.

Your life aspiration shouldn't be all about money making but touching lives with your dream.

Your dream isn't yet a dream if it hasn't touched lives or life. In fact your dream should be an inspiration to help someone achieve his or her own dream.

Dream isn't sleeping and waking up or rather nightmare or fantasy but is a clear picture of the future. Dream is like a direction of your life.

Start dreaming today, so you'll also shout ' I have a dream ' like Marthin Luther King.

" Be prepared to die for your dreams "

" Don't ever ignore your childhood dreams "

" Its dream that makes life beautiful "

"Dream big and act, you'll definitely succeed "

"Dream maybe delayed but keep your hope alive "

Let me ask you, what's the meaning of life without a dream? (Answer it).

Chase your dream and don't stop dreaming!

9. They're risk takers.

Successful people ain't afraid to take risk.

In fact it's risky not to take risk. Successful people don't allow the word fear to appear in their dictionary as its one major nightmare for not taking risk. With fear in you, you can't take risk.

Risk taking is an opportunity, if you pass it then be prepared to be poor!

P= Passing
O= Over 
O= Opportunity
R= Repeatedly. POOR!

Being successful isn't bread and butter or bread and egg, it requires sacrifice which involves taking risk.

"Gold becomes more brighter when it passes through fire".

"Rome wasn't built in a day".

Eradicate FEAR; False Evidence Appearing Real. Take Risk because achievers set goal others are scared to...

10. They work diligently.

Successful people do their work carefully and with great effort, they ain't lazy and careless.

They do things meticulously, for you to be rewarded with success, you need to work delligently.

Great achievers don't just fold hands and make mere wishes. No they don't!

You can only conquer by striving to conquer, don't allow laziness and procrastinating to rule your life.

If you wish to succeed, work hard and do it painstakingly...

Some quote that will help you achieve big!

" Determination and perseverance are key to success "

" Don't make achievement only in your imagination " WORK!

" Success tomorrow is today's event well managed "

" Don't say something is impossible until you've tried it yourself. "

" Nothing great happened all of a sudden "

" Life has many opportunities, Grab Them! "

" When there's no moon, you go by stars "

" A teachable heart is a database of wisdom "

" Everybody is great, stop the low self-esteem "

" Champions don't walk slowly "

" Achievers set goals others are afraid of "

" Our mind is a powerful asset we have, what's in yours? "

Some teach history, some study history and some make history .

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The 10 Superb Ways To Motivate Yourself To Study.

Many people are finding it hard to study because of one reason or the other.

Some fall asleep as soon as they set to study, while some don't even have any passion for studying.

Studying is essential because it opens you to learning new things, and learning is a essential aspect of life and if you don't learn, you can't progress.

Alvin toffler said "The illiterates of 21centuary won't be those that can't read and write but those that can't learn, unlearn and relearn" , how can this be possible without studying?
So you need to study as it helps you in learning which is an essential part of life.

Reading and studying are too different things, you can read but not study; so don't get it twisted. Studying is what makes you learn not mere reading.

However, I'll be showing you how to motivate or rather persuade yourself to study, relax and enjoy this article with me..

1. Avoid Procrastination.

Procrastinating is one major reason why people fail to study, learn to do things at the right time and don't shift or postpone it to later..

Procrastination will make your life complex, leaving you with too many things to study and you won't be able to make choice of studying.

"I was always postponing my day to day activities and I regretted because I gave my self much work to do at the end".

Avoid procrastination and you'll be motivated to study...

Stop procrastinating and save the stress!!

2. Create A To-do List.

This will help you alot because its similar to your school Timetable and without the Timetable Teacher won't know when they should teach their lecture..
Same thing applies to motivating yourself to study, you need to create a to-do list that will remind you it's time for a particular lecture or activity.

You won't have to miss anything and would save time.

Thank God for technology because you can create your schedule right on your phone and it would be easy for you and most to-do list app has reminder so that will really help..

Incase you don't know what a to-do list look like you can see it in the image below!

3. Get snacks and water.

When studying you might get bored and decide to chew something or sip water.
You should get your water and snacks before you start studying, so that you won't get distracted..

I will advice you eat things like peanuts, granola bars, groundnut or fruits that will energize and strengthen you..

Please avoid fast foods. This includes hamburgers, croissants, nachos, pizza, doughnuts, muffins, and cinnamon rolls.
They can easily make you fall asleep..

4. Wear Comfortable Clothes.

Wear comfortable clothes when you want to study to avoid distraction..

When I want to study I remove all my clothes so that I will be comfortable .

If you are a girl that has long hair try packing it together because it might enter your eyes and cause distraction..

Avoid tight cloths and trousers to avoid heat and itching of the body which can easily frustrate you from studying..

5. Set Ambition.

Set a target you want to achieve.
You can decide to study maths and choose a specific topic you want to complete..
If you don't have a goal you'll be frustrated and that will stop you from studying.

Maths for example, You set goal like "I want to complete simultaneous equation and surd today", this will help you study better and be focused, of course you can't study every maths topic once, so you need a target...

Imagine a man travelling without destination. You will be lost that is why you need to set a goal and make sure you achieve that.

This won't only motivate you to study, it will also increase the speed of achieving what you want...

6. Consider the profit.

For you to have passion for studying you need to consider what you'll stand to gain when you achieve the task. Consider the good things that will come out from it.

Maybe you'll be awarded as Best student, Family gift, Praises from teachers, Scholarship Etc
This will increase your passion towards studying harder.

At times you might get bored and tired of studying but when you remember the good things attached to the task you'll be motivated.

7. Put your phone on silent or switch off .

When you want to study try put off your phone or silent it to avoid distraction..

Your friends might call you and you'll be distracted.

That's the main reason why many schools prohibits the use of phone during school hours because you phone may ring and cause distraction. Although some schools allows it.

8. Don't be scared to get started!

Lets say you're studying maths and you came across a topic that seems hard and you just feel like leaving it..

Leaving it won't make you know it. When you encounter such situation, don't be scared to start it. You can spilt it into different sections so you won't be confused..

Just start it and you'll definitely understand..
"Things seems to be hard when you haven't started it".

9. Take a break.

When you're getting bored and tired you can take a little break to eat, listen to music and have fun.

Like a popular saying "All Work No Play Makes Jack A Dull Boy" so don't just read all day, take a break.

Make sure you have completed a particular section before taking a break. Don't use the opportunity to run because the topic seems hard..

Set time when the break will be over. So you won't consume useful time..

10.Switch off your computer.

Always switch off your computer when you want to study except you're using it to study..

This can be a huge gadget of distraction. You can decide to check if I have a new email message or check some celebrity gossip before you know it, you have spent hours..

That's why I always switch mine off except am using it..

Note: If you do need to use the computer as a research tool, consider printing out the information once you get it so that you're not tempted to open up another browser window and check your Facebook status. If you're really tempted to go on social sites, why not deactivate for a little while?

If you need to use the computer solely as a word processor, think about temporarily turning off your Internet access.

With this steps I believe you can motivate yourself to study and also don't fail to remember the importance of studying..

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In Healthy Living

The 9 Effective Ways To Keep Your Face Pimples Free!

Pimples, Medically known as acne vulgaris, is the most common skin problem which affects virtually 100 percent teenagers in many forms Nowadays, a good number of adults in their late 20s to 30s are faced with the same problem.

A good knowledge and few lifestyle tweaks can help prevent acne or reducing its severity.

How To Keep Your Face Pimples Free!

1. Keep Your Scalp Oil Free and Try to Shampoo Often as acne occurs due to excessive oil production by glands over our face and head.

We must also avoid oiling our hair as that would lead to dandruff and acne precipitation or exacerbation.

2.Wash face gently at least twice daily. This will not only reduce the oiliness of your face, it will also keep it clean and this helps combats the bacteria which causes acne production. For this, a non oily soap or face wash should be used.

Remember to stroke your face gently while washing as excessive scrubbing might increase the inflammation.

3.Try to use minimal cosmetics over the face as this blocks facial pores and causes acne. Always use ' non comedogenic ' products or consult a dermatologist when in doubt.

4. Avoid getting waxing on the face or massages or facials with only comedogenic products.

Always ensure which products are being used and ask your doctor if they're suitable for acne prone skin.

5. Avoid smoking; smoking is directly linked with the intensity of acne.

Read: How To Cure Heartburn
6. If you wish to make dietary changes, you can reduce the intake of dairy products such as milk products which have been known to increase acne production.

This must only be done after consulting a dietician.

7. A strict NO to the use of steroid creams over the face when you have acne!

Seek advice of a dermatologist before applying any cream recommended by your friend or family as they may contain steroids.

8. Avoid stress and stay happy, as a happy face is a beautiful face.

9. Acne maybe associated with hormonal problems in the body, the most important being PCOS, in which acne usually occurs with weight gain, irregular menstrual cycles and thick facial hair.

If you experience such symptoms, you must visit a dermatologist right away as this would need weight reduction and some medicines to treat the disorder.

If despite these recommendation; your acne persists, then you must visit a dermatologist and do not use any product without consulting a skin specialist.

In this era of technology, you can also make use of phone reminders and other devices to help you remember these simple hacks.

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This article was written by Dr. mangul aggarwal, consultant with department of dermatology, fortis hospital shalimar bagh India.

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The 4 Absolute Ways To Make Your Girlfriend Want Sex.

Sometimes girls tend to be strict when it comes to sex, most often girls deny their boyfriend sex due to the anxiety of being used and dumped which they probably don't want to happen.

They fear they won't be loved after sex or given much attention, care and communication after sex, they often think that all a guy want is SEX and when they finally get what they want, they will dumped them for another girl.

It is very insidious for a girl to think all her boyfriend wants is to get in between her legs. As a guy; if your attitude portrays such then you're likely not to ever have sex with her.

Having said all this, I have compiled a good list of etiquette that will make your girlfriend want SEX from you, which I titled The 4 Absolute Ways To Make Your Girlfriend Want SEX.

In addition, you should know sex involves consent and it's unlawful to coerce a lady to have sex either by pressurizing, threat or rape. So you'll definitely be needing this article to get her approval for sex or rather consent.

Most guys are just impatient, they ask for sex at the infant stage. Sex shouldn't be your foremost relationship goal and if it is then you're in lust not a relationship...

You shouldn't rush into SEX, its not a competition, don't pressurize your girlfriend for sex because a friend told you how splendorous his sex with his girlfriend was, let it be based on mutual agreement.

In addition before unleashing the topic at stake, learn to respect her wish, don't try to play smart with her feelings.

Fast forwarding to the the topic, I know you're growing impatient..

The 4 Absolute Ways To Make Your Girlfriend Want Sex

1. Gain Her Trust - If you really want your girlfriend to have sex with you then you need to make her trust you.

You need to change her mindset of being dumped after SEX, or not being cared for and loved. By proving to her you're genuine and have no mischievous plans.

To build her trust you need to be dependable, let her see you as someone she can confide in, someone that's reliable, someone that's matured and responsible.

Don't make sex special or crucial, don't let sex be your topic or motive always, care less about sex so as to win her trust and also prove that you're not just after sex.

You should be loyal to her, in order to gain required trust, you need to be faithful to her and the relationship, you can't expect sex from her when she's doubting your love or probably think you might be unfaithful or rather promiscuous.

Don't let her see you with an opposite sex especially alone, not for any reason should you.

In addition, you also need to be faithful to your promises, don't make promise you won't be able to fulfill.

When you promise to call or text her, make sure you do that which you've said.

When you promise to visit her, don't disappoint her!

When you're faithful to your promises, she will develop trust in you.
lastly, you should give sex time and it also take time to gain her trust, don't try to persuade or pressurize her, when you stay for a long time without doing or saying anything about sex, she will feel you're trust worthy, she will be knowledgeable to know that you're not after sex and will start feeling comfortable around you...

Related: How To Know If Your Spouse Is Cheating.

2. Cleanliness they say; is next to Godliness, no sensitive or well brought up girl would want to have sex in a dirty and unfriendly environment or rather with someone that isn't clean except she's a gold digger (of course even gold diggers now have good taste) that don't care where she has sex and with who isn't CLEAN. They only care about the cash or bounty they'll receive at the end.

If you really want to have sex or make your girlfriend want sex then you'd consider embracing cleanliness.

You need to be clean in your appearance, you need to look magnificent.

Also, you need to keep your environment and apartment clean, you'll agree with me that no sensitive girl will like to have sex in an unfriendly atmosphere; A house that's unkept, scattered with wrappers, clothes and under wears. So keep your apartment and environment clean.

Also if you have a car and often drive your girlfriend with it, you should learn or consider keeping the car clean.

Ensure the car is clean and has a friendly atmosphere, you should consider playing cool music when driving her around and also use aromatic air freshener to keep the atmosphere of your car nice, pleasant and sparking.

Note - Not excluding body maintenance.

Ensure everything about you is just Superb clean; internal and external.

Related: The Qualities That Will Make Her Interested In You.

3. Care - Every Girl needs care and its best to show her that care, if you intend having sex with her then you should care for her, show her affection, don't care less about her.

You should also try to maintain eye contact when in discussion with her, this shows you're attentive and more often than not, it's regarded as CARE.

In addition, you need to treat her like a princess and a goddess, make her feel special, make feel like she's the only one on planet earth, make her feel lucky to have you.

You should go on a date together and visit romantic/fun places to spend time.
Going to parties, galleries or shopping mall is good but sometime isn't enough, you need to go to places meant for only two or rather place two of you will spend time without distraction.

Also, care for by giving her gifts, listen to her problem and showing her great affection but don't do anything unnatural; be yourself, don't fake to care and do only things that not beyond your capability.

Related: How To Have A Healthy Relationship.

4. Activating Sex Mood - There are certain ways to activate sex mood, these LoveNancials No_4 has to do with action and intension of having sex with her at a particular time or day.

You might have win her trust and every necessary things but you can't fold your hands and hope sex come, you need to work towards achieving it.

You might be scared to try anything but this point Is here to help you.

She might even want sex but you probably don't know how to start, so read this point keenly..

Important Message
Make sure she trust you and is willing to have sex but there is no problem if you want to try.

Make sure she's in good mood too.

∆ Be prepared - You need to be prepared for sex, make sure everything you'll be needing is ready.

Buy the Condoms, it will be awkward to rush out to buy condom when the scene is about starting, or remembering when you're already about to start, so get it ready else it might make your sexual desire fall flat or even limit your chances of having sex (who knows if she might change her mind when you're rushing for condom?).

If you will be needing some drugs, go and buy them before the scene starts. I am not advising you to use drugs and probably won't recommend any. If you know the drug you want to use or already using then go and buy them.

Arrange your house, the bedsheets and make the atmosphere conducive for two.
Play cool or rather sweet or romantic songs (low tone, not loud. Just a background play). Turn on your light, it should be a light that isn't too bright maybe colored, though you know what is nice, so use the light you think is the best.

Also get everything you think will be necessary and relevant ready.

∆ Make A Move - This is the aspect that requires action, you can start by calling or texting her, telling her to visit you at home.

You can also go and pick her by yourself, but while doing this make sure everything is set.

When she arrives, entertain her with soft drinks and also do or discuss some fun stuff with her.

•Go Romantic - The main aim of this aspect is to turn her on, there's no specific thing that guarantees she would be turned on as it differs by people's nature, decision & personality. But the basic rules never change and if well applied, she'll be asking for more!

Some of the basic ways is to maintain close distance with her (If she's sitting, go and seat close to her and vice versa.),  then you can go further to kissing and touching her romantically, telling her dirty words that's related to how you tend to explore her.

Kiss her slowly and romantically, don't overwhelm her.  Take a break from kissing and do some other sexual things. You can penetrate further by caressing her laps, breast and other body parts.

In addition, you can ask her if she will be willing to have sex with you, there's nothing awkward about it.

If she is responding to your romantic touches or acts by moaning or gasping in pleasure then you can have your way by ripping off panties, bra, etc

During sex, try different sex position and also try oral sex it could be great.

Warning: if she show any feeling or sign of not wanting to have sex with you or not comfortable with your initial move, don't try to coerce her or even pressure her. She might not be in the mood or not wanting to have sex for some reasons, so let her be and always remember you can always try again.

Final thoughts, make sure she's comfortable with your act and avoid looking at her sensual parts when you're still building trust.

Discard every negative thoughts if she didn't comply, this may be rape, using sleeping pills and more.

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The 10 Characteristics Of A Flawless Woman.

Good day all, today I'll be listing out some characteristics you can find in a flawless woman...

Does this women actually exists?? Yes they do but very rare to find. Though it depends on the measure you use in finding them.

I'll start by defining what Flawless Really Means...
Flawless: I Personally Define as Being Unique, Faultless, Sparkling, No stain and chaste..

It's very hard to find such women that are faultless but they exist.

Yeah, Nobody is perfect but this women stands out in the gap..(they're different)..

When you find such woman don't let her go... Treat her like a queen, adore and cherish her as she truly deserve.

Relax as I unveil 10 characteristics of a flawless woman..

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1.Self Love.

A Flawless woman loves herself, like they say "Charity Begins At Home".
You can't love someone else without loving yourself..

A flawless woman takes care of her self and make sure she's happy.
She doesn't give in to anxiety happening within her...

She's strong and encourages herself.
During hard time, she's always happy she doesn't allow the situation to take away her happiness.


A Flawless woman is independent, she stays natural.
She does her things in her own way and doesn't do a thing because others are doing it.

She's ambitious and hardly gives up..
Her Yes is always yes and her No is no..

She's hardly influenced by friends and doesn't give in to temptation..

She's simple and also shows what she's made up of..
She doesn't pretend and doesn't care what people think about her!


She's the woman every man dreams of.

All men needs her because she gat the true quality of a woman.

God created every woman to be faithful, loving, helpful, etc.

That's why all men wants her and hardly plays with her feelings .

Her feelings worths being faithful for, and her love is unique...


Every man wants a woman who will cheer him up and give him strength when he's down..

A flawless woman is fun, she makes you forget your sorrow and gives you peace..

She's raise you up instead of pulling you down.
When you're with her you feel like you're with a goddess, a muse, a mentor, an angel etc..

Whenever any man is sad he prays for such woman...

She makes you feel loved and doesn't play with your feelings..
She's brings out the real you and help you grow your potential..
She's worth being with..


A flawless woman will take care of you.
She knows what you need and knows when you're not happy...

Even when you're smiling she can still tell something is wrong...

Instead of mocking you, she cares for you and help you forget your anxiety..

She knows when you're hungry and she's always proud of you..

She won't stress you instead she stresses herself.

She puts a smile on your face...
Every man wants a woman who knows how to take care of him. A woman that knows his in and out...

6. Respectful.

She respects every thing you say and will never wants you to get angry..
She make you feel like the president you're not. She lets the world see's you like a king and a hero..

Even when you're wrong she will be the one to apologise.
She always correct you in love even when you don't deserve it..

Every man wants to be proud of his woman and no man will be proud of a woman that's not respectful..


She's a wife material, she would never cheat.

She builds up her house instead of plugging it down..

Even when she does something in the dark, she will never keep it to her self..

She prefers being punished for her sins instead of hiding it..

Every man needs a woman he can defend with the whole of his life..
A woman that he knows what she can do and what she can't..


A flawless woman is always happy.
In a flawless woman you find happiness..

She makes you laugh out your sorrows...

She doesn't allows you to keep anything as a burden in your heart...

Many men drink to forget their sorrows.

They'll never share it with their wife
because she's not flawless..

They keep it to their self and decide to stay in pain...
That's why they need a flawless woman..


A flawless woman is beautiful...
"True beauty is from the inside"

A flawless woman is cute, sparkling, pretty Etc (Name them).

From my dictionary I came up with a true definition of Beautiful.

"Beatiful can be defined as having beauty; possessing qualities that give great pleasure or satisfaction to see, hear, think about, etc."
Being Beautiful is not the same as being cute..
She's cute but not flawless(oops)..

A flawless woman is cute and beautiful and she's indeed a blessing from God..

She's the dream woman for every man!

10.Unconditional Love..

She's not partial, she's doesn't love for what she will get but for what she has to offer..

She loves you for who you are.. She not one of those woman that can make her man frustrated..

She's not a gold digger, she doesn't love you for your money...
She will never depend on your money even when she's Brooke...

Many men has done what they ain't supposed to do because they want to please a woman... (then she's not flawless)...

This women are hard to find but they exist...

Advice to the ladies, It's called relationship not a bank, don't frustrate him just because of want him to please you..

Ladies please be the flawless woman you were created to be...

For the men, "If you ever find her, treat her like the princess she has always been..don't break her heart.."

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Is It Wrong For Parent To Interfere In Children's Affair?

Is it wrong for parents to interfere with their children's relationship affair?

One cool evening i was sitting in my room, actually doing some mind-job; Like Henry Ford said "Thinking is the hardest work there's, which is  probably the reason why so few engage in it", so I was doing the hardest work. LOL, hope you're same?

I was thinking about Random issues related to life and relationship, I suddenly remembered a Movie I watched; it was a nice film! it was focus on forbidden relationship and how parent stopped their children from marrying their own choice of a spouse but instead try to coerce them to marry who they want them to.

It inspired me to write this article, because I recently discovered some parents detect whom and whom not to be in a relationship with but that was as of then because most children don't care if their parent is in support or not.

Everyone will agree that it's wrong to disobey one's parent but does it applies to relationship affair?

The matter has taken the worst heights as children who tend to experience this forbidden relationship is usually madly in love, that they can hardly sacrifice their love just to keep their parents wish, let me ask; will you obey your parent if they forbid your relationship? comment!

Most times our parents may be right and some other times wrong, it depends!

I have met people who share their experience on forbidden relationship whereby disobeying their parent, it went well for some while others faced the hard part of their decision.

Whichever way, before deciding, try to know the reasons why your parent seems to disapprove your relationship because you'll surely need your parent. Sooner or Later!

I'll advise you to follow your choice but also listen to other people opinion, they maybe right too!

Furthermore, don't disobey your parent because everyone else is doing so, you might not be lucky like them!

Reasons like "Don't marry her because she is slim, fat, short, tall and other appearance flaws" are extraneous. Even if its coming from your parent, because looks play little or no role when it comes to the success of a relationship.

So learn to know your parent reason and also be able to differentiate between Infatuations and love, because infatuation will always urge you to disobey your parent but true love enables you make true decision.

Below is the story of john who was stuck by infatuation that lead him to disobeying his mom.

"I fell in love with a girl when I travel to my village, the relationship was forbidden because according to my mom she doesn't have a good reputation but the love I had for this girl was super strong that I had to disobey my mom after intense argument and controversies with my mom but when I left the village; probably after a week. All the feeling for this girl was good as gone, then I realized I was stroked with infatuation, I apologized to my mom and also learnt from my mistake."

Infatuation made him  disobey his mom and later he discovered it wasn't a real good love; yeah, that's what infatuation can do!

The main reason why people are infatuated is because they don't really know what they want and what love really means, that's why you need to take painstaking measure when making such decision...

Mind you, learn to make personal decision because its a key to succeed but still listen to their people's opinion and learn from them...

"At first, my parents were against our relationship, so we ran away together and got married, truth to be told, our marriage is so blissful. our parent later apologized for being against us, we are living happily" From a successful couple.

Seeing this, you'll agree it pays to be disobey at times and also to make personal decision.

if you feel your relationship is right, try convincing your parent or look for any other option!

However, some people still think it isn't right for parents to interfere with their affair. Below is some things they're saying:

"Its wrong, my parents lived their own life, so they shouldn't be involved in mine, I don't really buy the idea" Comment from a street interview!

"I won't want my parent to detect for me because I am the one getting married not them, so they should stay off" Comment from a Facebook user!

"Disobeying our parent isn't right but not in such issues, my parent shouldn't interfere because I know the good virtue I saw in whoever I decide to marry which they probably won't see or isn't seeing. So its wrong!" Reply From a Call Interview.

So what do you think? is it wrong or right? comment with good reasons!

In conclusion, parents might be judging based on past flaws which your spouse have probably improved, that's why you need to know their reasons and make personal decision.
Anyway, I leave you with this quote to ponder on.
"If you want to go quick, Go Alone.If you want to go far, Go Together!"

Note: Your personal decision should be the last bus-stop.

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The 10 Amazing Benefits Of Being In A Relationship.

Having a good Relationship is the best thing that can ever happen to you.

Many people aren't in any relationship because of heart breaks and disappointment.

But that is not a good reason why you shouldn't move on.

There are many benefits of being in a relationship which you should not miss for any reason.

Have been disappointed in the past? Experienced Breakup? And other ill health of a not-meant-to-be relationship? Don't give up on love and relationship because it has lots of advantages.

I will be listing the 10 benefits of being in a relationship and I'm sure you wouldn't want to miss.

READ: The 10 Characteristics Of A Flawless Woman

The 10 Amazing Benefits Of Being In A Relationship.

1. Love and Security!

You can't talk about relationship without mentioning love.
Love is the bedrock of every relationship.

Relationship can't work without love, and you won't see the benefit untill there's love..

When you're in a relationship, there is always love except you're not in the right one.

Everybody want to be loved, so being in a relationship will give you this love.

Also, There are things you can't share with a friend because you don't want it to be the next big news even if the friend is trust worthy but when you're In a relationship, you can share it with your partner and won't have any worries of it being leaked..

2. Life Becomes Easier.

Relationship makes life easier because you always have someone to lean on.
There are some hard aspect of life that needs the help of someone in order to overcome, in fact not just someone but a soulmate. Being in a relationship will help you meet that soulmate.

In addition, Life becomes easier because someone is always making you think positively...

Some friends might advice you to drink and forget your problem but in relationship you will get good advice that will help you think and act positively..

READ: The 10 Kind Of Men Usually Found Attractive By Women.

3. Get Good Company.

When you're in a relationship you will be happy.
When you're bored, depressed or sad you will overcome it easily because someone is there for you..

When you're not in a relationship, you can easily get discouraged and evil thoughts will easily troop into your mind.

"An Idle Mind Is The Devils Workshop"

But when you are busy with your partner, you won't think of things that's not right as your partner will keep your mind busy with positive things.

READ: The 10 Best Online Dating Sites To Hook Up In 2017.

4. Emotionally Satisfied.
There are always sometimes you will be moved emotionally and you need someone to kiss, flirt, hold. The list goes on. Its natural!

When you are In a relationship you will be satisfied and have the best of fun!

If you're not in a relationship you might end up Masturbating, Chasing Harlots, being promiscuous and Getting your mind filled with evil thoughts when you're emotionally moved.

The aforementioned habits will make you vulnerable to deadly diseases because you ain't sticking with one partner..

READ: The 5 Warning Signs That Shows He Maybe Cheating.

5. Self Esteem.

When you're not in a relationship, you will look down on yourself, thinking life hasn't been fair with you and even ask yourself questions like 'What am I living for'?

But if you're in a relationship you will see yourself as the next king, you will be so confident in yourself and even if you have failed before, you will be zealous to try again because someone is strengthening you and giving you hope to live..

When others see's you as nothing, someone is always telling you sweet thing that will make you happy and overlook what people are saying about you and be focused...

6. You're Always Happy.
When you are in a relationship, you will be happy because someone is there for you.

When you're in pains you will always remember that special person and you will see no reason to be sad..

When you're bored you'll always think of the good times you spent with your partner and the funny things that he/she said and you'll be happy onces again..

7. Advice..

When you're in a relationship you get good advice and won't make mistakes as its coming from a good source. Even if you make mistakes, you'll make corrections with love.

"Two heads is better than one" .

Also, There is a saying "A problem shared is a problem solved".  In relationship you see someone to share your problem with, not just sharing but with someone that understands you..

You will accomplish better things because of the rich advice you've got..

8. The One And Only Person.

When you're in a relationship you'll have someone that understands you and knows everything about you..

You will have someone to share the worst and the good time of your life with..

Sometimes only you understand how you feel, even if you share it with friends they won't really understand it deeply but when you're in a relationship you have someone you trust and can share every bit of your life with and the person will understands you more than any other person because you're soulmates.

9. You Will Be Responsible.

There are somethings you do that will make your people unhappy. So when you are not in a relationship you won't bother changing those bad habits of yours. But when you're in a relationship, you'll be coerced to change those habit.

Futhermore, You will always want to please your partner and avoid things that won't make her proud..

Before you do anything you will have to think if your partner is going to be happy about it and you'll try as much you can not to let her down instead of being one of those that always live their life anyhow it pleases them.

By this, you're unknowingly changing your habit that makes people unhappy and this will make you more responsible.

10.You're Complete..

When you're in a relationship you will feel that you are complete because someone is always making you feel comfortable..

There are somethings you do when you're single which might not be right and you are unable overcome it but being in a relationship make you overcome that problem and you will feel complete and worry less..

You will always feel you have it all and focus your mind on other things instead doing things you were doing as a single...

READ: The 21 Kind Of Guys You Should Avoid.

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I believe you have seen some good reasons why you should be in a relationship, it's now your turn to do some taking.

What are some other benefits you know? I didn't mention? Drop a comment.

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